having a job doesn't mean that you can put aside your children.
having somebody to take care of your kids doesn't mean that you don't need to come back early from work.
you as parents have the full authorities to take care of your kids well being.
you as parents should behave.
if you can't take care of yourself yet, don't think of having kids.
what's the point of having kids but don't want to take care of them?
if you're not financially ok or steady, how are you going to bring up your kids?
if both of you working at the same place, don't do over-time together, you think what? your family members have to take care of your kids whole day?
where are your responsibilities as parents?
can't you spend more times with your kids rather than going disco or doing things that prevent you to be with your kids?
don't you know that they are not even in pre-school yet?
don't you love your kids?
don't you ever want to play with your kids?